What do children and teenagers need to know about money?

Is there a right time to start talking to your children about money? 

It is never too early to talk to children about money. After all, children are exposed to much more today than ever before, and we should give them credit for what they observe and understand. 

Whether that’s the weekly shop, overhearing conversations about bills or where money comes from, all conversations are valuable if we take the mystery out of it. It needs to be part of the everyday and not become overwhelming. 

As children get older, they will naturally inherit more responsibility over their money – for example, as they start going out, or maybe earning through a part-time job or receiving an allowance – so it’s important not to wait until then to start having these conversations. 

Moreover, as more people opt for online banking rather than just tangible cash and pennies, it’s also valuable to introduce children to the concept of spending online safely, too. We’ve seen this shift in recent years, with over a quarter of children now receiving their pocket money as a bank transfer rather than in cash, so it’s important that your conversations match up with the real way that money gets used and spent as they get older.

The importance of money skills for children and teenagers

While conversations and financial education are important, children will also pick up money habits from what they see at home. In fact, research by the Money Advice Service suggests that the most memorable money habits that can last for life begin to form between the ages of 3 and 7. 

It follows that there are likely to be things we’ve learnt as adults that we wish we knew when we were younger, such as saving early or waiting a day or two before making a big purchase rather than buying on impulse. 

Beyond having conversations around money, it’s good to let children make decisions early on about what to spend and what to save, as that’s also believed to have an influence on learning to successfully manage their finances.  

The good news is that most parents agree with this already. In fact, 87% of those surveyed believe their children should use their own money to either buy outright or contribute towards items such as video games and toys. 50 % say they should be doing this before the age of 12.

Elsewhere, 8 in 10 (85%) parents recognised that they are likely to have an effect on their children’s spending and saving habits in some way, with 25% of respondents acknowledging that they were perhaps the biggest influence.  And 77% said that their children’s friends would have an impact on how they save and spend.  

Resources from Lloyds Banking Group

As an organisation we want to ensure we can help with all different levels of understanding and with different financial needs. The most important thing for us is ensuring that customers know they have choices and, if they find themselves facing money worries, they should feel they can ask for help early. 

Lloyds Bank has a whole hub of resources in financial planning for parents, with some helpful ideas on how to start the conversation, as well as a whole hub on how to talk about money management, plus Lloyds Bank Academy for over sixteen year-olds.

Moreover, the Lloyds Bank Smart Start account gives 11 to 15-year-olds their own Spending Account and Savings Account in one application, and lets them manage their own money, plus gives parents an insight into their spending too.

Lastly, along with the Smart Start account, Lloyds Bank has also put together Smart Start guides to help children get the most out of the account, plus cover other areas of money management such as card control, safety on social media and setting up standing orders.